Add "don't ask people to go to a private room before explaining your problem and receiving an offer of help"

[DaveRandom]

It's annoying and intrusive and can put people in an uncomfortable position. It's also often counter-productive to the asker, as it reduces the number of people who can look at and offer opinions on the problem.

[RonniSkansing]

yes please

[PeeHaa]

Perhaps also note that in 99% of the cases there is no need at all for a "private" room

[PeeHaa]

As a matter of fact the only reason for a private room is when your mom is here

[J7mbo]

Or when the questions involve Laravel.

[hakre]

yes please